Thanks for teaching me a new word worldtour!
One thing I'm lacking is a rich vocabulary.
effeminate:- Having qualities or characteristics more often associated with women than men. See Synonyms at female.
- Characterized by weakness and excessive refinement.
Japanese men are very very shy when it comes to dating. It will take them months to grab a woman's hand. Western women want a more pro-active man, someone that leads the way rather than always scared about what to do.