Well, I'm still with my beautiful Chinese lady, the same one I've been with since we "hooked' up and although it's been a rocky road, we're still strong and together. We've had our problems....who doesn't, but really, in order to marry anyone, you have to have a level of maturity that allows for differences, whatever culture or religion.
Her parents love the hell outta me and I them, but they still harbour fears that I'll take their daughter away from them despite having bought a home in Guangzhou. Nope, I'm not married yet but I figure that this is the year to do so. I've known my lady for a long time now, we've lived together for a long time now and as a result, we know each other truly and once one can say this, and still love their partner, then one should know that marriage should be the result. She and I've discussed marriage, kids, her parents and where to live etc, and we're in agreement on these things. The only sticking point being schooling for the kids, but we'll cross that bridge when we get there!
peace y'all!
